Further litigation of same-sex marriage right now takes up precious bandwidth that could be used on issues we can still win.
The truth be told, marriage today is at its core a financial arrangement and for most people a temporary one.
Conservatives generally oppose the idea of same-sex marriage. I am one of them and for what I consider to be my principled position, I have been called a gay basher, a bigot and a homophobe. I resolutely maintain that I am none of these.